The video for the month of September is now publicly available on Facebook. The video was chosen by votes received in the poll: https://www.supersurvey.com/poll4236812x01b63125-133
On the Facebook page "David Steckel Exposed Exhibitionist" https://www.facebook.com/DavidSteckelNewd the video is available through the blue "Watch Now" button on the page.
On my personal page https://www.facebook.com/david.steckel.75 the video is available through a public post containing a link to the video, and through a qr code which can be scanned.
The video shows me masturbating naked with my legs above my head and cumming into my face and into my mouth. It's one of the videos I would most prefer not to be widely seen, especially by friends or people who know me, but no video can receive any special considerations. It was selected through voting and the poll results are always final.
A few images from the video and a link to the video:
https://photos.app.goo.gl/i82Ajb7UctrrYZdz6
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For me this is a particularly humiliating video to be available so publicly and to friends and people who know me. In the days after it became clear that this video would be made available, I hoped for anything that might at least delay its availability, but no such thing happened.
On top of that, a fairly close and long-time female friend discovered and followed the Facebook Exposure page, and are automatically notified about any posting. It's a pretty sure thing that they have already seen me naked and watched me masturbate in the previous months video. They will inevitably watch this months video due to receiving a notification about the update to the "Watch Now" button. They are also a Facebook friend, and friends and followers receive notifications for any posts on my personal page.
So far they have not contacted me directly about seeing me, but whether or not they ever do, they will or have already seen this months video of me.
Since other friends and an unknown number of others will inevitably watch this video of me, it can seem pointless at times for me to feel such humiliation due to any specific friend seeing it. This friend is especially well known, has spent a lot of time with me, and has known me for many years without ever seeing me naked or even being aware of my online exposure until recently. They are likely not to keep what they see of me to themselves, at least for long, which could lead to additional friends seeing me.
There is still some disbelief for me that this friend followed the Exposure page just as an extremely humiliating video of me was about to become available to so many others on Facebook, but there's nothing that can be done about it now or ever.
I have just been completely and forever exposed to one more person who knows me, and they received almost immediate access to one video that is particularly humiliating for me for her and other friends to see.
It's all good as long as a lot of people you know see your pics and videos for sure. That's the whole point and how it has to be. No matter how humiliating or embarrassing it gets, it still has to happen. At the very least that much is owed to anyone who wants it to happen.
ReplyDeleteIt's also probably very entertaining for anyone you know when they see you exposed on the internet. People tend to like finding someone they know naked on the internet, and there's plenty for them to see of you.
I do know that at least some people who know me have already seen photos and videos of me naked, so it's definitely happening. It's not clear how many people who know me have seen them, but it's sure to be more than just the ones I know about. By now I've probably been seen by them quite a bit and the number can only go up over time.
DeleteI know of one person who seems to be sharing what they saw of me with other friends of theirs that I don't know well or don't know at all, so it seems that even some people who know me want to make sure I'm seen naked by more people.
I'm sure they're all reacting in their own way when they see me naked. I'm probably entertainment for some of them, or at least an amusing interest.
I know that the wishes or desires of anyone who wants my exposure to be seen by people I know has to be respected. Now that friends and people I know have actually seen me naked and that they are even sharing my exposure with their own friends in at least one case, it adds another factor.
Any limiting or restricting of my exposure would cut them off from seeing or sharing my exposure, which they could perceive as them being personally denied access to what they already had access to. Possibly even as an affront to them. If they do share my exposure with their friends, and their friends end up not being able to view my exposure, they may dislike it that they recommended something to their friends that turned out not to be for real.
It's appearing more and more likely that it's owed to friends and people who know me for my exposure to be there and available to anyone they share it with or recommend it to.
As a long time follower of your exposure, and also being familiar with the Facebook settings, it would be interesting to know if your own settings are as permissive as they can be.
ReplyDeleteBe sure all settings are set to the least restrictive setting available. In most cases that setting will be public. For a few settings, the least restrictive will be for friends. All of these should be confirmed to viewers by capturing an image of the settings page and posting it publicly, just to make sure you're not making any attempt to restrict your exposure. This would include your tagging settings, which would notify each of your contacts that you have been tagged in a post.
Additionally, you should be tagged in each and every post, which should always be public of course. This will guarantee that all contacts will be notified of each post.
If all settings are not set properly, then you could be remaining under the radar of some contacts either unintentionally or by choice. Either way it would be an affront to anyone who follows your exposure, especially to those with a strong interest or desire to see you utterly exposed naked to your contacts and friends.
If your settings are already set properly, then you would only need to confirm it with an image capture of the setting page, and ensure that you are tagged in all posts.
If not, then these settings need to be changed and then confirmed through an image capture.
To further ensure your compliance, you should install an app that allows remote access by others, such as Anydesk or a similar app. This will allow anyone to access and view your actual settings page to confirm your compliance. You would need to allow their access, but not doing so immediately upon request would reveal your lack of compliance. These apps will contain an address of some sort, usually a series of numbers, that you would need to make available publicly.
You could limit access to viewing your screen, but you would have to have the Facebook settings page already on your screen, or go to it immediately.
If all is as it should be, then this should not present any problems for you. If all is not as it should be, then it could be discovered at any time.
I have to admit that I can get lost or confused any time I go into the settings pages on Facebook. Even finding the settings for what happens when I'm tagged took a few tries. Most settings I found were already set to public or to friends. I can only assume that I found the settings being referred to. One setting was set to "only me". It said this: When you're tagged in a post, who do you want to add to the audience of the post if they can't already see it? It is now set to "friends" and as far as I can see, it's the only setting that wasn't already set to public or friends.
DeleteI don't know any way to post a photo or an image in a comment or a reply, so an actual post might have to me made to show any screen shot of the settings page.
I assumed that friends were automatically notified of any post made on my Facebook page, but I'm not always sure about how Facebook functions for some things.
It's not my intent to fool or deceive anyone who might follow my exposure, so if it's necessary to show proof of that, then I suppose people have the right to see that my exposure really is as easy as possible for friends to see.
I do understand how just a screen shot might not be sufficient proof, since settings can obviously be changed.
I don't know much about apps that would let someone see the settings page for themselves, so I looked up Anydesk and found the app. It's now installed on my laptop. I'm still trying to figure out how it works, but I believe the address for it is 990 573 524
I assume the app will notify me if someone requests remote access to see what they want to see, and I will accept the request as soon as possible, assuming that I understand how it all functions. I see several options for what can be accessed through the app, but they seem to be more for if I invite someone. I suppose the only way I'll see how things work is if someone requests access through the app.
If it helps to show that my exposure isn't being limited somehow, and if this app can do that or allow it to be shown, then anyone is welcomed to see it for themselves.
It does look like anyone who wants access would also have to have the app, unless I'm misunderstanding something about the app.
A password along with your address. Look under settings.
DeleteI'm still a little confused by the app. It took a while but I think I'm figuring it out little by little. As far as I can tell, the address is 990 573 524 and the password is Seemystuff1
DeleteIt would be better to have the Teamviewer app too for anyone who only has that app. It works a lot like Anydesk and it would keep someone from needing to download another app.
DeleteBesides for seeing your Facebook settings, people should be able to see how many of your friends have actually been invited to the page exposing you... And maybe invite a few of them that might not have been invited. Wouldn't that be nice and helpful?
I will see about getting that other app. I guess it's only fair for anyone who already has it. I want to be as open as possible about how I'm exposed for people on Facebook to see and I don't want it to seem like I'm trying to hide something.
DeleteMost Facebook friends have already been invited to the exposure page, but a few haven't been for one reason or another. A couple of them have passed and their pages are still there. Even more have multiple pages and inviting them once on a page they use often seemed like enough. Others that found and liked the page before even being invited would no longer need to be invited, since they've already seen the page.
After Facebook recently reformatted the page, it's not very easy to even see how to invite people. It took me a couple days to figure it out after the reformat.
I think a better way to put it besides for helpful would be beyond humiliating, but someone could waste a lot of time trying to figure out how to do it and still not find how it works.
In any case, I will look into the other app mentioned.
Two apps that would let someone see that my exposure is happening without anything being restricted, if they wanted to, seem to be functioning.
DeleteAn app called Teamviewer and another called Anydesk can be used to see this.
The Teamviewer address is 1 054 262 400
and the password given is 4j5r7ugg
The Anydesk address is 990 573 524
and the password is Showmystuff1
I don't know how easy or hard it might be for someone to be able to see what they want to see if they try using either app, but it's up to them if they want to try..
Teamviewer is getting on my nerves. It generates a random password that changes all of the time, but lets a permanent one be created that it never shows. The permanent one is Nakedandexposed1 so hopefully it works. I can't know if it does until it's tried by someone.
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